So, you’ve scored a first date — congrats! The butterflies are real, the excitement is high, and the pressure to make a good impression is evident. First dates can be magical, but they can also go ridiculously wrong if you’re not careful. To help you navigate these waters smoothly, here’s a light-hearted guide to avoiding common first-date mistakes.

1. Overdressing or Underdressing

When it comes to first dates, finding the perfect outfit can be just as nerve-wracking as choosing where to go. You don’t want to show up dressed like you’re attending a high-profile event when you’re only grabbing lunch. But on the flip side, showing up in slides and a casual tee at a fancy restaurant? Big no-no. The key is finding that sweet spot where you look put-together but not overly formal.

2. All About You? Nah!

It’s great that you’ve been to all the popular raves in your city, started a side hustle, and know all the lyrics to Wizkid’s songs, but remember your date is not your personal hype person. The best conversations are two-way streets. Ask some fun questions, show genuine interest in their stories, hobbies, and quirks. It’s about connecting, not talking at them

3. Picking the Wrong Spot

That trendy spot might be Instagram-worthy, but if it’s too loud for a good conversation, skip it—your date deserves a setting where you can truly connect. Instead, opt for a cozy restaurant, a laid-back cafe, or a cool outdoor dining spot where you both feel comfortable.

4. The Phone Trap

Yeah, I get it, we all love our phones, but checking your phone every 5 minutes? Not really a good look. I mean, this is a chance to build a real connection, put that phone down, be present, enjoy the moment, and listen.

5. No Plan? Big Problem

Winging it on a first date might sound adventurous, but just so you know, it’s a recipe for disaster. Without a plan, things can go sideways fast. Imagine an awkward silence while deciding where to eat, showing up at a fully booked spot, or settling for an uninspired venue because you didn’t think it through. Not exactly the vibe you want, right? So plan! plan! plan!

6. Ex Talk? Hard Pass

Okay, let’s get real, talking about your ex on a first date is a one-way ticket to Awkward Town. No matter how interesting or dramatic your past relationships were, your date didn’t sign up to be your therapist or play referee in the “what went wrong” mental gymnastics. This is your chance to focus on the now, not the then, and enjoy your date.

7. Overthinking the Bill

Nothing kills a vibe faster than an awkward bill-splitting moment. The simplest solution? Treat your date! Whether it’s the whole dinner or just dessert, your O3 American Express® Cards has your back.

First dates should be fun and relaxing, not overthought. Just be yourself and let the conversation flow naturally.